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15 august 1995

Tuesday, May 18, 2010

MIRACLES

On this day, God wants you to know...
... that no one can make you feel inferior without your consent. You have to agree that you are less and that someone else is more to feel inferior. If you don't agree, you can not possibly feel inferior. You might know something less, or you might be able to do something less, but you ARE unique and hence simply incomparable. Do not buy into being reduced to an object of comparison.

I wished my mum would see this.
Two days ago, we were arguing over comparing ourselves with others.
I mean, each of us have our own strengths and weaknesses.
Its not like wished to be weak in certain areas. But God has it all planned for us.
My mum was telling me that Min scored 98/100, second in class for maths. And then she added, "its not good enough". I mean, well, to me, thats can awesome result.
She claims thatt Min's friend scored full marks, and she could do better.
Oh, sure Min could do better. But what's with the comparison.
Have she thought of our feelings? Unless you're on the better end, who enjoys being compared to.
I shared my views, i told her purely disagree that we should make comparisons in life.
God has our life planned. If we're not meant to do well in that certain aspect, we'll do better in others.
I dont see her doing very well in life, financially and socially either?
Accept what we have, and our efforts that we put in. Why compare? Why say your friends are better? Why fight over who does better? We all have our gifts, our talent.
And she replied " If you dont compare, you wont work hard to beat others. If you cant do better than others, these people will take over you in the society when you grow older. You need to compare, like they're your challenges. "
Well, and again, i disagree.
If you dont enjoy the aspect, you wont necessarily do well in it. And even if you do, to me, its what you force out of yourself. I agree basic stuffs are essential, but what happened to the interest? Even with a high paid job you dont enjoy at all? Life isnt just about working hard, good results and a comfortable life. As for what i think, its about the fun, and satisfaction you benefit from your life experiences.
So, sometimes, i cant understand my mum's way of thinking. Maybe i'd respect it, but no way do i agree with that nonsensical theory. (:

Today, results were pretty, or in fact, VERY disappointing.
Expected much much more.
Sometimes, i wonder if hardwork ever pays off.
Trainings starting like soonsoon, oh goshhh.

Byeeee/
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